The title of the book immediately grabbed my attention. The author believes a lot of men hide behind different masks of masculinity. As boys, they bought a false definition of a ‘real man’. He believes masculinity is a mirage.

 Men do not always meet that false definition of a ‘real man’. So a lot of men pretend and hide behind those masks to appear as ‘real men’. He explained that men attach their self-worth to what they have.